When he first met Ellie, our oldest nephew was worried. He thought that we might not need his help anymore now that we had Ellie. She would work with us around the farm, or we wouldn’t be doing as many projects because we were busy with her.
We quickly clarified that we felt like we needed him more than ever. Ellie is a long way from being helpful and, yes, we are busy with her, but there is still lots we wanted to do.
Every time we saw him after that, he asked if we needed him to come to the farm. Finally, we set a date for him to come over and start the spring clean up, picking up branches that had fallen over the winter and piling them up to burn.
I set him up with the tractor, and he went to work. A month later he was back, digging out rocks, burning more brush and helping to pick up firewood.
Over our six years at the farm, and especially since having Ellie, we have had lots of help from family and friends. We are extremely grateful that people are willing to give us their time and help make the farm what we envision.
Our nephew is 18 years old. I remember the first time I met him at the hospital the day he was born. It’s been so rewarding to watch him grow up, and I’m so proud of the responsible, caring, hard-working young man that he is now.
I hope that we can teach Ellie those same values and that she shares her big cousin’s enthusiasm for helping around the farm.
How wonderful that he not only helps but that he actually wants to help. That is the best kind of help there is. (And I’m sure his young muscles don’t hurt either!) It’s giving him some good experience too. He can probably put some of the skills he’s learning on his resume.
He just got a job working for a paving company, so the equipment, the tools and the outside work all translate!
What a great helper! Unfortunately not all young people have the drive to work. Sounds like a wonderful young man.
He is very responsible about his work and giving for family. He is a wonderful example.
Had to smile when you said Ellie is a long way from being helpful! Haha.
It felt a little harsh to say she’s the opposite of helpful right now. She gives us lots of smiles, even if she can’t work in the garden or drive the tractor, so she’s good for other things. 🙂