Over the weekend we hosted Matt’s family for a pre-Christmas get-together. This gathering has been happening since Matt and I were dating–more than 25 years. Over that time, the family has changed. Four people have died. People have joined. Marriages have begun. Four babies have been born.

Family changes. There are losses and additions. Tragedy and joy. Friction and love. Family can be hard. But it’s worth it.

On Saturday, seeing these people playing, laughing, talking, eating, enjoying together was very special. It is definitely worth it.

Here are some other things from this month that are worth it.

I have a new niece! I knit this hat ages ago, and my Mom had it still, so it went to baby M. It’s such a cute baby girl design.

Another motivation to return to knitting, the Campaign for Wool Canada videos are so beautiful and inspiring.

I made these scones twice this month. They have the flavour of cinnamon buns with a fraction of the effort.

Our new bathroom is done! And it’s beautiful.

I love so much about this house. The small size. The traditional style. The colours.

A friend of mine posts beautiful thoughts of the day every morning. This one feels appropriate for a post talking about family, whether your family is two or many:

“A good relationship is just two people saying, “Hey life is hard, but I want to do it with you.” That’s it. It’s not a highlight reel… Love isn’t always loud. Sometimes it’s just choosing each other again and again.”

I’m grateful my families (all of them) choose each other and value being together. It’s not always easy. But it’s worth it.