Abandonment

Do you ever see those formerly grand old houses, neglected, abandoned, abused and imagine repairing them? Rebuilding them? Restoring their beauty? Appreciating them?

Every fall, Matt and I spend a weekend at his aunt’s and uncle’s cottage. We follow a two lane road north, driving past large farms that stretch between small towns. The leaves are changing and the trees on either side of the road are shades of gold, red and green.

Coming into the last town before we reach the cottage, the speed limit drops and on our left is an old brick house. It sits on the crest of the hill, plywood squares covering its lower windows. The red brick is solid, while the porch sags. The paint is chipped, the shingles are flaking, the weather vane is bent. However, the charm is still evident.

Abandoned house

The beauty and the character and the potential and the tragedy of this house attract me every single time I see it.

Details on a historic brick house

But I know a project like this is beyond me. To restore a house like this takes more effort, more money, more time, more energy and more passion than I have.

However, someone else has felt the same attraction, and they have decided that they have the means to truly appreciate this house.

Restoration of an old brick house

This weekend as we crested the hill, I gasped in delight and surprise as I realized the house was being renovated. The joy I felt in seeing it finally being cared for is hard to explain. I live three hours away from this town. I don’t know anything about this house. I’ve never been in it. I have not met the owners. I have not seen the floor plans. But seeing the new third story, the fresh cedar shakes on the roof, the stripped wood on the turret, the scaffolding stretching up every side, I was very happy.

I find great meaning in houses–even houses that aren’t mine. Caring for my house and its property, creating a home is a special experience for me. And I don’t think I’m the only one that feels this way.

What about you? Do you ever dream of fixing up an old house? Or have you jumped in and done it (or doing it) already? Do you have an abandoned house that you admire?

BlogPodium lessons learned

Going to BlogPodium was a bit of a surreal experience. I still feel like a newbie to this whole blogging thing, but a professional conference made me feel almost… professional.

I will admit I was a little star struck, starting right at the beginning when Handyman from Rambling Renovators checked me in at the registration table. Thankfully, I restrained myself and didn’t blurt out, “Hey, you’re Handyman!” right to his face.

BlogPodium

HandyMan and Jennifer, the Rambling Renovators and BlogPodium organizing team
BlogPodium official photos by Annawithlove Photography

I felt like my head kept whipping around doing double takes of, “Hey that’s Jen from Rambling Renovators/Sarah Richardson from TV/Karen Bertelson from The Art of Doing Stuff/Margot Austin from House & Home!” or “I’m sure I recognize her. How do I know her?” It turns out my brain has a hard time translating people I’ve seen on screen, in print or on TV into real life.

I did manage to overcome my geeky excitement and introvert tendencies to actually remember why I came to BlogPodium in the first place: to learn about blogging, connect with other bloggers and figure out how I can develop my blog.

I’m going to start with two simple lessons before going into more detail about what I learned from each session (warning, it’s long).

What worked:

It may seem silly, but wearing a distinctive outfit and posting it on my blog beforehand actually helped me to connect with people. Lots of people came up and introduced themselves to me just because they recognized my bring pink plaid shirt. (By the way, I went with the blue purse, the yellow wrap (which I ended up not using) and my pearl studs, for those that are wondering).

What didn’t work:

I wish I had done a better job of connecting with people before the conference either over Twitter or through the BlogPodium site. I think that would have helped with some of the initial awkwardness of walking into the room and not knowing anyone. As well, for the next conference, I will prepare an “elevator pitch” in advance to explain who I am and what my blog is about.

And now on to the sessions:

The day started off with the keynote presentation from Sarah Richardson. Sarah’s confidence, positive attitude and openness really impressed me. She talked about the need to evolve to stay relevant in the design and media careers. Or as she termed it, “I’m the last woman standing surrounded by contractors.” Thinking about HGTV’s current line-up, I can definitely see where she’s coming from.

As important as evolution is, she talked about how she focuses on designs that last and creating a signature style. This lesson applies to blogging (writing style) as well as how you treat a room. The most unique moment of the presentation was when Sarah described her design sense. Rather than using standard labels like modern or traditional, she uses four words: shore, lane, boulevard and sidewalk. Each of these represents a different element of her style from her signature blues and greens, to her love of the country, to the polish of “the finer things,” to youthful family friendly fun. Isn’t this a unique way of thinking about your work?

Sarah’s presentation was very powerful for me and was an amazing kick-off for the conference.

The first session I went to was on what bloggers can learn from magazines with Corinna vanGerwen.

The way Corinna described it, magazines are the original blog. They’re all about content, bringing images and words together, sharing ideas and inspiring people.

Corinna gave us a top 10 to use in our own blogs:

  1. Find your niche — What makes you different from all the other design and lifestyle blogs out there?
  2. Think like an editor — Look at the topic you want to write about but also how it fits into your overall blog, the best way to tell the story, how will it attract readers.
  3. Use an editorial calendar – Balance topics, formats of posts, length, frequency, themes, and most importantly your own workload.
  4. Write eye catching headlines – Sell the benefits not the features and be clear (puns and plays on words don’t always work). Interesting tip: look to magazine covers and men’s magazines for the best headline examples.
  5. Write for your audience — To grow your blog it has to be more than a vanity project. Get to know your audience by monitoring your analytics, reading comments, following your followers on twitter or pinterest, analyzing your most popular posts.
  6. Practice the art of packaging – Think of different ways to present information, whether it’s a how-to, recipe, list, trend piece, review, profile, interview, charts.
  7. Edit your content to give it professionalism and finesse — Look at the big picture of your editorial calendar and blog theme. Look for length, flow and clarity. Favourite quote (as someone who tends to write long posts): “Just because there’s all the room in the world on the internet doesn’t mean you have to take it all up.”
  8. Have a style guide – Establish standards for grammar, spelling, numbers, prices, names, measurements, etc. Be consistent.
  9. Fact check your work — Credibility and trust are vital.
  10. Identify advertising — Transparency and disclosure are essential in blogging

Session two was from blog to business with Stephanie Sterjovski.

Stephanie impressed me with her confidence. She had a very positive, no BS attitude, as you can probably tell from her tips:

  1. Keep it positive. Don’t spread negativity.
  2. You don’t have to know everything. Build your skills. If you want to perfect something you have to work at it yourself.
  3. Readers want content that is fresh. Get off Pinterest and start creating things people will pin. Take your own photos. Invest in a camera. Learn.
  4. Post only about what you truly love and what reflects your brand.

Over a delicious lunch, it was time for a panel discussion about traditional media, new media, and social media moderated by Leigh-Ann Allaire Perreault of Hue La La. Panelists Margot Austin from House & Home, Jacquelyn Clark of Style Me Pretty Living and Lark & Linen, Emma Reddington from Chatelaine and The Marion House Book and Rhonda Riche co-founder of Covet Garden all had really interesting insights to share about the intersection between blogs and traditional media (mostly magazines. One of the most encouraging statements was that blogs are feeding the print product and making it stronger.

The session after lunch, grow your business using social media, was another panel featuring Brittany Stager, Neil Gazmen and Meredith Heron. This session was a mix of the philosophical (“It’s not about number of followers. It’s about their engagement”) and the practical (how Meredith uses social media: photograph what I’m working on and post it to Instagram first. Share the Instagram through Facebook and Twitter. Later, use the Instagram photos for blog content. Pin everything from my blog posts. Name every project and use a hash tag. And then repost photos on Facebook).

Whew! It’s paying off for her. Meredith could trace beaucoup de bucks in design work that’s come directly through leads on social media.

The final session of the day was the art of monetization with Karen Bertelsen. Karen was as funny in person as she is on her blog. She was also super open about numbers and dollars, answering all of people’s questions.

Step one in monetizing your blog is growing your readership. Karen advised building readership by sharing your work through other sites and blogs. If one of your posts is featured on Apartment Therapy, your audience will spike (and recede), but over time it will build. Karen also gave a good overview of different advertising options from Google Ad Sense to vertical ad networks to private ads to sponsorship, how they all work and what some of the different considerations are. She gave us a preview of the big announcement that she shared on Monday, which led to tips on working with magazines and other brands.

Some of her other tips:

  1. If someone wants to use your content, don’t give it away for free.
  2. If you want something and see a partnership opportunity, pitch the company.
  3. If you have a question, reach out and ask people or other bloggers who might be able to help you.
  4. Look at your blog as a business and it will become a business .

Rounding out all of the presentations were the amazing sponsors. Look at all of this swag that was in our packages!

BlogPodium swag

This one is my photo

The biggest takeaway from all of the speakers, all of the sessions and my overall experience of BlogPodium was collaborate. Build relationships and work together. Connecting with 250 other enthusiastic passionate bloggers was a good first step. I’m so glad that I decided to attend. Thanks to Jen Flores and the rest of the BlogPodium organizing team for an amazing day.

If you’ve made it to the bottom of this incredibly long post, congratulations and thank you. If you somehow haven’t had enough, read other BlogPodium recaps here.

You can never have too many

I may have mentioned a couple of times that I have a bit of a thing for chairs. Just in case you missed it, this is the fifth post this month on the topic of chairs (out of a total 11 posts). I may have a bit of a problem, people.

Fortunately, I also have a supportive husband who does things like buy me a wingchair for my birthday and recruits his parents to go pick up another chair when the universe decides to support my habit by bestowing a chair on me as a prize for registering for BlogPodium.

So after a day spent absorbing lots of lessons about blogging, meeting a bunch of great people and picking up the second half of the prize, the decorating book Inspired Styles from Kravet, I came home from BlogPodium to find the Austin chair from Decorium sitting in my living room.

Here are the two halves of the prize together in Austin’s new home in the basement.

Decorium Austin chair and Inspired Style book

Inspired Styles is full of inspiration from different designers, including Candice Olson, who have all made fabric collections with Kravet.

Candice Olson profile in Inspired Styles

Austin is already set up in the basement. His dark wood legs and deep grey upholstery go perfectly with our Decor-Rest sectional.

Dark grey occasional chair and grey sectional in a TV room

How good does he look?

Thanks to Decorium, Kravet and BlogPodium for a great prize. And thanks universe for enabling my chair obsession collection.

Birthday wish come true

See my full review of the Ikea Strandmon.

 

It was my birthday over the weekend. BlogPodium was my present to myself, but what about that other item that was on my wish list? A certain chair that I was hoping my family would give me…

Sitting on a cardboard box

Hmm… that’s certainly a new chair. Not sure about the style… or the comfort for that matter.

Let’s take a closer look, shall we?

Ikea Strandmon box

Ooooh! Goody, goody, gumshoes. I think my birthday wish has come true!

Behold Strandmon in my basement.

Ikea Strandmon wing chair

Behold me in Strandmon (reading the Inspired Styles book that I won through BlogPodium… and wearing Mickey Mouse socks… hmm).

Lounging in Ikea's Strandmon wing chair

All of my previous discomfort is gone. I love Strandmon. He perhaps may have the title of most comfortable chair ever. It’s only fair. After all, he shares the room with the most comfortable couch ever.

Thank you Matt and all of my family members for going in on this gift.

Now for a footstool and side table… and boy do I have ideas, people. Stay tuned!

Did you add any new furniture to your household over the weekend? What are some of your favourite birthday presents? Does anyone else buy themselves gifts for their birthdays? Does anyone else wear cartoon character socks?

Big question for a big blogging weekend

You nearly didn’t get to read this post. Baxter and my walk yesterday morning came to a crashing halt (or more accurately a dashing sprint) when he pulled the leash out of my hand and went running into the woods in pursuit of something.

Matt and I spent an hour thrashing around in the dark with flashlights calling his name. When we had to go to work, his parents took over and spent four hours at the farm searching/waiting for him to come home (yes, I have the best in-laws). After an anxiety-filled day that included climbing electric and barbed wire fences and calls to animal control, I arrived home to the welcome sight of Matt walking over the back field, Baxter at his side.

The Dude had spent the day getting up close and personal with a tree in the back woods. Thanks to his trailing leash, he hadn’t made it very far in his mad dash through the forest. Despite Matt, his parents and me all walking within 100 metres of him, he hadn’t made a sound and our woods are thick enough that we hadn’t seen him. Fortunately, Matt has a sixth sense… or something… and he managed to find him. Baxter had been on our property the whole time.

Holy hell, people. This dog may do me in.

Anyways, I’m not looking back at what might have been. Let’s look ahead.

This is a big weekend for me. Tomorrow I will be spending the day with more than a hundred other bloggers at BlogPodium.

I am attending Blog Podium

BlogPodium is Canada’s top conference for design and lifestyle bloggers.  There are sessions on everything from social media to monetization, a panel of high-profile editors from Chatelaine and House & Home, an opening keynote from superstar designer Sarah Richardson, exhibits from sponsors including Home Depot, Delta Faucet, Para Paints and Loblaws, and lots, lots more. I am very excited.

But one question is plaguing me. What do I wear? Bloggers are one of the best dressed groups out there. They’re stylish and chic with a definite creative edge. Stylish, chic and creative, yup, I can do that. However, my blog is Home on 129 Acres. I think I need a little bit of country in there. (Look at me branding myself through my clothing).

Here’s my idea for an outfit. (Apologies for the bad photo. I had plans to reshoot it, but my time was hijacked by a four-legged runaway).

BlogPodium outfit

White trousers, fresh from the dry cleaner in the nick of time. Pink plaid shirt, desperately in need of a close encounter with a hot iron before Saturday. Strappy nude/pink patent heels. I’m still debating which bag and which wrap work best. What do you think? Nude seatbelt bag or blue leather purse? Bright yellow pashmina or soft blue? I probably won’t wear the shawl the whole time, but I want to have it in case the rooms are cold.

Aaaah! I forgot about jewelry #cannotleavethehousewithoutearrings. Hmmm…

Cowgirl earrings

Those might be a little more cowgirl than country. I tend to be a pearl studs or big chandeliers type of woman.

Help me, people. My future as a blogger is hanging in the balance.

(For those with no interest in fashion, my apologies for the break in our usual programming. I promise to refrain from too many forays into my closet in the future.)

In turn, Baxter I would appreciate if you would please refrain from running away.

What’s on tap for your weekend? Any new experiences on the agenda? Any outfit dilemmas I can assist with?

Find a seat

Now that we have our new dining table, my attention is turning to my favourite furniture: chairs.

Here are my criteria for new dining chairs:

  • Contrasts with, yet complements, the traditional dark wood table.
  • Reasonably priced–especially as I’d like to buy eight.
  • Not upholstered.
  • Slightly country feel. We live on a farm after all.

Here are some of the options I’m thinking of.

The front runner right now is something wicker or woven. Sarah Richardson used rattan arm chairs around the table at her farmhouse. I’d probably go more of a parsons chair route, as I want to squeeze as many people around the table as possible, but I really like the contrast and casual feel of a woven chair.

Sticking to the wicker theme, I also like the woven seats and the ladder backs on these chairs from for the love of a house.

Jen at Rambling Renovators found some great cross back chairs for a decent price. Their weathered finish would tone down the formality of the dining table and still keep the country feel that’s appropriate for our setting. Ikea has a white version that would contrast nicely with the dark wood table, but they look pretty plastic in person.

Jenny at Little Green Notebook recently scored a great deal on some Louis style chairs. The fluting on the legs picks up on some of the details from the table, and with a white glaze or slightly distressed finish we could still avoid the matchy-matchy dining set look.

Or I could just collect a whole bunch of old chairs, paint them all the same colour (cream, maybe?) and use them. I’ve seen people do this quite successfully. It would definitely be country and would probably be the cheapest option. I’m just not sure that that much mismatching is my style.

Sigh. I see why dining room sets are popular. Easy. No need for creativity or independent thought. Convenient.

What do you think? Do you like any of my ideas? Or do you have a suggestion of your own? I welcome any and all advice. How do you handle mixing and matching in your house?

Table for 2, 6, 10… everybody

Every time we have people over for dinner, I realize we need a larger dining room table. The table that we have fits four comfortably, six if we squeeze. A typical family dinner, no matter whether we’re hosting Matt’s family or mine, usually involves about eight people, not including us. Special occasions like Christmas or Easter when we add in extended family require a second table and lots of extra chairs.

Well, we may still need a few extra chairs, but we should now be set in the table department.

Antique dark wood dining table

I’ve been casually searching kijiji every so often (more popular in Canada than Craigslist), looking for a few very specific pieces of furniture. A couple of weeks ago, browsing the dining tables, I came across a beautiful antique dark wood table for an incredible price. I emailed, the seller replied, a meeting was scheduled. I borrowed my dad’s truck, we met, the table was examined, money was exchanged (a whole $130) and the table came home with us.

I know nothing about antiques, but I know I like this table. The unique legs obviously drew me in first. The size was what sold me: four feet wide by eight feet long when it’s fully extended. It has four leaves, and I think it could probably stretch to include a few more.

Triple curved legs on an antique dining table

At some point I may have some more leaves made. I feel like our dining room can comfortably accommodate up to a ten foot table. If we do add extra leaves, I’ll definitely need to also add an extra support leg of some kind in the middle. The table has a wee bit of a sag when it’s fully extended, but nothing too noticeable.

I would also like to have the top refinished someday. It’s pretty rough, but since I use a tablecloth most of the time, I can wait on the refinishing. The finish on the legs and apron is in great shape, so I’m hoping that I could find someone who would just refinish the top.

Damaged top on an antique wood countertop

I do need some bigger tablecloths. But not too big. I still want to see the pretty legs.

So who wants to come over for dinner?

Has anyone else had success with second hand shopping online? Any antique experts out there who can share what to look for in furniture? Anyone have any tips for refinishing furniture?

The fruits of our labour

For the first time ever, Matt and I have grown food for our own consumption. Sure we’ve eaten food from the farm before, but we’ve never actually grown something ourselves.

Ladies and gentlemen, gaze upon these beautiful tomatoes.

A handful of red roma tomatoes

We worked for these tomatoes. There was watering and weeding, suckering and staking. Sweat and dirt was involved. Alright, not all that much sweat and dirt, but, still, we worked!

And the results are oh so tasty. In the words of Matt, “I’m not the biggest fan of tomatoes, but we grew these ourselves. I’m going to eat them forever.”

I think he meant that figuratively, but given the number of green tomatoes we have yet to ripen, we may literally be eating tomatoes forever.

Green tomatoes growing on a vine

Some other words of wisdom from Matt, “Bring on the canker sores.”

You won’t hear me complaining. Matt may not be the biggest fan, but I love tomatoes. Caprese salads, homemade soup, burgers, sandwiches… I see lots of tomato goodness in my future.

What about you? Are you a yay or nay for tomatoes? Any tips for avoiding canker sores? Anyone have any favourite recipes to share? Have you grown anything to eat this year? Do you feel pride in eating the fruits of your labour?

The sixth sense

It’s not quite, “I see dead people,” but I have adopted a somewhat morbid interest since moving to the country. You see, I collect dead things.

Feathers, moths and a baby turtle

I haven’t progressed to full on taxidermy yet. However, during Baxter’s and my walks, I often come across things on the side of the road and end up bringing them home. So far it’s been mostly feathers, a couple of moths, some butterflies and one baby turtle.

Baby turtle

I managed to restrain myself when I came across a baby garter snake and a perfectly intact cardinal.

I think it’s a bit of a fascination with the natural form and being able to examine these creatures up close. The wings of the moths are so magnificently intricate. And the turtle with his tiny claws and incredibly fragile shell is something that I don’t usually get to see.

Of course, I wish they weren’t all dead.

Level with me, people. How weird is my new fascination?

Going once, going twice…

Looking at this picture, you may be thinking flooding. Natural disaster. Neighbours banding together to help each other.

Walking down a country road in a rain storm

You’d be wrong.

The event that draws such a crowd on a stormy Saturday morning is a classic country auction.

Auction sign

The community became very close knit during the event as everyone crowded into the barn to take shelter from the rain. I climbed up on the hay bales trying to get a picture of the crowd, and then the auctioneer (far left) sold the pile–300 bales for $1 each.

Auction in a barn

This was a true farm auction. Light on collectibles. Heavy on the equipment.

Farm equipment for sale by auction

Even the livestock was auction block. The poor brown gal wasn’t enthused to hear she was for sale.

Cattle for sale

It’s been too long since I’ve been to an auction, so I wasn’t as quick as I should have been. I’m still thinking about that wagon wheel hub and the small metal cabinets that ended up being thrown into lots when they didn’t sell the first time. I could have had them both for less than $5.

However, my Dad had no hesitation about bidding and was able to come away with a decent haul of a cart, a pair of small mechanic’s ramps, a drill and a handheld grinder. The soggy umbrellas were ours.

Auction purchases

I love a country auction, even when I end up slogging through mud and who knows what else up close and personal with 200 of my closest neighbours. I’ll definitely be back in two weeks when the whole property–the stone farmhouse, the big barn and all 17 acres–go on the block.

Farmstead

Anyone want to buy a farm?

Who else loves auctions, rain or shine? Does anyone else suffer from non-bidders’ remorse? Any tips for successful bidding? I usually like to wait to jump in until bidding has slowed down a bit, rather than driving up the price by bidding too early. Would you buy something as big as a house at an auction?